July 29, 2025
Isabella's Story
Walking Alongside Families to Help Youth Thrive
At Friends of the Children – Coachella Valley, we know that mentorship is most powerful when we work hand in hand with families. Professional mentors build long-term relationships not only with youth, but also with the parents and caregivers who are essential to their success.
Belinda, one of our professional mentors, shared how working closely with Isabella* and her family has helped create meaningful change.
When Belinda first met Isabella’s caregivers, the whole family—her parents and siblings—gathered to share their concerns about Isabella’s struggles in school. They were worried about her reluctance to attend classes and about the bullying she had been facing. “Please let us know if there is anything we can do,” her father said, placing trust in Belinda to help support their daughter.
At school, Belinda noticed Isabella’s quiet, withdrawn demeanor. Over time, she earned Isabella’s trust during recess, drawing her into games and activities. Other kids began joining in, and soon Isabella was making friends and finding her voice. Her confidence grew so much that she began raising her hand in class.
Isabella’s parents played a critical role in her progress. They communicate openly, prioritize their children despite busy work schedules, and regularly welcome Belinda into their home for visits. Around their kitchen table, they come together to stay engaged in Isabella’s growth. When distractions arise, they help refocus her so she can stay on track with her lessons and goals.
This shared commitment has helped Isabella flourish. Her mother recently shared that Isabella is now attending Ballet Folklórico classes, proudly showing videos of her performances.
Stories like Isabella’s reflect why partnering with parents and caregivers is central to our work. When youth, families, and mentors work together, we can create the stability, encouragement, and opportunities every child needs to thrive.
